Well the Holidays are right around the corner and what should we Do??

My wonderful wife for the past almost four years now has had to deal with "ME"!
If you've been reading along, she has had to deal with my 10 surgeries, getting me back on my feet, running the house and basically doing everything I have not been able to do for the past years?
So my question to everyone in earshot is how do I try and make these coming holidays a time she can enjoy herself, the grand babies and the kids??
She needs a break!! Not at any time has she gone out of her way for just doing something for her. So I need some help with how to make a wonderful person feel she doesn't have to do a thing for a while a way for her to mind to just rest??

How about saying "Hello" to someone today??

Why not, we seem to have a day for everything else??
When I was a kid people would actually be nice to one another or is it just my imagination, that times have changed so drastically that folks won't even look at each other??
It's a damn shame that common manners have been thrown out the window by some.
Even just holding a door for someone the other day I got a look like I wanted something?
Then getting on the elevator I asked the person which floor and they reached around me and hit the button themselves, Like I didn't exist?
Maybe it's time for half the parents to get their heads out of their asses and teach a common manners class at home or will that be a high school class offered for three credits??
I guess I had Parents that realized that having manners could come into play one day in my lifetime even if it was just to say"Hello"??
Mark from Boston